“When we know better we do better” - Maya Angelou
Before I really knew myself through the lens of astrology, and before I met my husband, I made a whole lot of bad choices when it came to love. But my Natal Chart opened up the Pandora's box of all the reasons for that and pointed me to what I really needed and desired in a partner and also why I wasn't attracting him to my life.
Lucky, with the help of astrology I discovered and embraced a new love for myself that I feel confident the cosmos rewarded me through the meeting of my husband. We have been married for over a decade now. And I remember studying his Natal Chart and our Synastry intently when we first met. And I will be honest, we don't have the perfect, magical planetary connections. As individuals we are actually quite different. Almost like an "opposites attract" kind of chemistry. However, we do have a few key combinations that certainly confirm why we are together.
But more importantly, what has given us the ability to last as long as we have was our mutual awareness, acceptance and respect for our differences from the beginning and a willingness to always choose each other, learn from each other and give each other plenty of space to be ourselves. That isn't always easy, but having the understanding of our astrology is always a helpful reminder and tool for maintaining a healthy, loving relationship.
Benefits of Astrology for Relationships
Here are just a few of the benefits Astrology can offer on the journey to finding love and sustaining happy, healthy and loving relationships.
●Valuable insight into how you and your partner connect or conflict in personality, characteristic traits and general approach to life.
●Nurturing support for understanding how you and your partner show love, express emotions and needs so you can learn to care for one another more consciously.
●An objective tool for navigating challenges that arise in your relationship and in life.
●A helpful insight into potential commitment fears and/or willingness to work at cultivating a healthy relationship.
●A supportive tool for co-parenting, understanding differing parenting styles, and learning how or where you can best serve each other and the children.
Start improving your closest relationships with an Astrology Reading, by learning some of the basics here or by grabbing a book on the subject from my suggested resources page.